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Showing posts with label hadith. Show all posts
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Tuesday, 17 April 2012

PTPTN will be abolished ? Tennagers trying to rebel on this issue ?

Assalamualaikum


Nowadays , we often heard about the issue of PTPTN that maybe will be abolished soon . 
I'm here not to comment / rebel / againts on this issue  . Nope . 
I'm one of the to-be 18 girl and i still have to take much times to understand about this issue up to the hilt .
Plus , I havent been through any such experiences with this PTPTN . But soon , maybe yes because i'm going to further my study in very soon further . By hook or by crook , i have to say yes to PTPTN if i wanna further my study in any IPTA in Malaysia even i know one day i've to repay this PTPTN in a very huge amount of money . Unless , if i further my study in any institut perguruan , ill be free from this PTPTN stuff yet still get the allowances. That's the advantages of further study in institut perguruan . 

Okay , stop about repay stuff and whatsoever .
I'm here to give some opinions on "How teenagers in Malaysia trying to voice their opinions in this issue"
Okay before i continue with my views on this topic , ill show you a picture , which was uploaded by a teenangers and he voiced out bout this ptptn issue 



One status was written and it has been commented on by four youths .
2 agreed ptptn been abolished and others are totally not .

I wanna ask you to take a look and read those comments and try to distiguish all the 4 comments there 
2 person , who agreed with ptptn (abolish) gave their indeed quiet strong evidences on this issue compared to other 2 teens who just tried to give a condemnation on this issue and didnt give any strong points on why they didnt agreed with this . They just know to cursing people ? Spew out some accusation to those people who are trying to ease the burden of our lives

Yes everyone have their own right to speak but if what you say is totally nonsense and not based on the actual topic , i'd suggest you untuk hanya mendiamkan diri . Bukan apa , takut kata kata yang tajam itu boleh membawa kepada fitnah yang hanya membawa dosa kepada diri sendiri . Nauzubillah . 

Dari Hudzaifah bin al-Yaman ra, dia berkata : “Aku mendengar Rasulullah saw bersabda :

“Berbagai fitnah akan dibentangkan kepada hati seperti anyaman tikar, satu benang demi satu benang. Mana-mana hati yang berhasil dirasuki fitnah itu, maka ia akan meninggalkan titik hitam. Manakala hati yang berhasil menolaknya, maka ia akan meninggalkan titik putih. Sehingga hati itu terbelah dua, hati putih seperti batu karang, yang tidak akan goyah oleh fitnah apapun selama langit dan bumi masih tegak. Sedangkan yang lainnya hati hitam seperti warna yang sangat putih terletak dalam warna hitam, ia seperti kuali terbalik, ia tidak mengenal kema’rufan dan tidak pula menolak kemungkaran, kecuali apa-apa yang bersesuaian dengan keinginan hawa nafsunya.”

(Riwayat Muslim)


From what i see , almost 80% teenangers yang mengeluarkan pendapat mereka tentang isu ptptn ini hanyalah berunsurkan kata-kata kesat dan pandangan yang langsung tidak bijak . Mereka hanya bercakap berdasarkan apa yang mereka dengar and what i can say here is , they talked based on what mereka dgr and apa yang mereka telah dipengaruhi ?

I'm not trying to mixing some political issues in this entry but i talked based on what i see . Whats point untuk menyuarakan pendapat tapi pendapat tu kosong dan hanya dipenuhi dengan kata kata kesat sampai boleh membawa marah kpd org lain yg membaca ?

I'm a girl who knows nothing jgk on this issue but atleast i can spot some big differences between advantages and disadvantages on abolish this PTPTN . Atleast i have some evidence on each of my points . Even not as strong as the others' but atleast i have to something that i can voice out on this issue . I dont know why when it comes about this , i feel quiet uncomfortable and mad when a few tennagers who only talk but act they dont know what they talking about . How sad is that isnt it ? I'm not saying that i'm good in giving opinions , furthermore in this such quiet serious issue .

What if we just stay calm and give a try and let see if without this ptptn , would it ease some of burden of our lives ? Adakah ia akan menjejaskan pembelajaran kita ? If betul orang kata , bila ptptn dihapuskan orang akan tak berapa nak hargai pembelajaran tu bt heyy mak ayah korang mesti kisah kan kalau korang tak belajar ? Nak taknak kena belajar kn ? Ni adalah utk situasi mereka-mereka yg jenis tk ambil kisah pasal masa hadapan dan pembelajaran walaupun sudah dinyatakan secara terang-terangan bahawa menuntut ilmu itu adalah fardhu ain dan tuntutlah ilmu sehingga ke liang lahad .

So , to all the teenagers out there (including me myself) , let us talk based on our views , not based on what people talked . Lain orang lain ragam . Ada orang bercakap lantang sebab dia gagah , berani , bijak . And ada orang bersuara lantang sebab dia takut akan satu perkataan ni iaitu = JATUH

So , be wise yeah ? Let us think about this wisely . Whether it is good for us or in other ways , Wallahualam . If kita tahu negara ni negara islam , adakah unsur unsur riba diperlukan dalam perkhidmatan untuk menyenangkan anak malaysia ? Jika benar ptptn sudah diubah menjadi 'ujrah' dan walaupun ujrah itu diluluskan Majlis Fatwa Kebangsaan tetapi ttp ada unsur riba disitu . 

Kalau ujrah - Bagi konsep ujrah yang terbaru, formula kiraannya adalah :

Upah = Jumlah pembiayaan diluluskan x kadar upah x tempoh bayaran balik

Contoh, jika sekiranya pelajar meminjam sebanyak RM34,000, maka kadar upah adalah satu peratus setahun, UNTUK TEMPOH BAYARAN SEMULA 10 TAHUN, maka jumlah upah adalah:-

Upah     = RM34,000 x 1% x 10 (tahun)
            = RM 3,400

Maka jumlah keseluruhan yang akan ditanggung atau perlu dibayar balik oleh pelajar dalam tempoh 10 tahun adalah : RM34,000 + RM 3,400 = RM34,400

Cara pengiraan ini ttp tdk menepati seperti piawaian hukum yg diputuskan oleh para ulama antarabangsa Ini adalah kerana cara kiraannya masih terdapat yang sama dengan cara kiraan riba sebelum ini. Which is the underlying fee charges. First it pledged to total loans, the latest ujrah concept also pledged to total loans.

And to recall back , in Islamic law, whether an individual lenders, financial institutions, private or government CAN NOT impose any finance charges to the borrower, especially from a pegged to a percentage of total lending. Change as the provision of loan amount :) Nonetheless, a certain Muslim students can heave a sigh of relief because the prices are cheaper and secondly, it WAS confirmed by a group of scholars Malaysia. Hence, no further liability to be their spiritual bearings when taking PTPTN loan.

So as the conclusion , sama-samala kita fikir mana satu bagus mana satu tidak bagus . Bagus untuk ikut undang-undang manusia atau lagi bagus untuk ikut undang-undang yang berlandaskan islam

“Jiwa (roh) seorang mukmin tergantung kerana hutangnya, sehingga dilunasi” (Hadis Riwayat At-Tirmidzi dan Ibn Majah)



p/s : anis najwa shared me a very funny video which entittled 'ABUDEN' . Lols






Saturday, 14 April 2012

Single ladies are more attracted to the married men nowadays ?

Assalamualaikum 


Okay this entry is very the so so so so serioussssss one .
Last evening , me and my mum was on the way to our tuition centre 
Then suddenly , there was a quiet enticing topic that issued by my mom which is -

"Someone's hubby is more attractive than the single men nowadays"


Okay , i'd realize about this thing before but i didnt take this matter seriously as i think it wont be happened continously but then nowadays , it's like a new trend that a single lady more attracted with the married man .

I've often heard about "sugardaddy" or maybe "concubine" before .
But i was too young to understand with what the meaning of those word on that time
So i assumed that those things are normal and i didnt have to take them seriously

But nowadays , i often heard that there are quiet a big numb of single ladies who are more attracted to the married man . Omg . Why it happens ? It scares me like seriously .
Amir , can you be loyal to me when we're already married soon ? Just me ? Lol =p 
(Question banned . Really out of topic =p )

Okay let's back to the point ,
Okay i'll give you an example . Errmm like ... Okayy

Eg :
One day , you're at any shopping complex , alone . And all of sudden , you see your father's friend is there but not with your mother's friend but he is with someone else , who might be a stranger for you . You had never seen her before at your friend's house or either at any parties of your friend . Your father's friend and that young lady are cuddling intimately or maybe they are shopping ? Then what would be on your mind on that time ? Then you found out that the lady is still single and she's not your cousin's friend or maybe anyone that related to your friend . 


Okay , that's what i mean .
A single lady , who is in a relationship or maybe i can say in a "secret-relationship" , with a married man .

Ohh i dont want to discuss about this matter seriously because my words might wound anyone who is currently reading this entry hehe sorry . I dont have any intention to hurt anyone here with my words but yeah , you know guys , this matter is getting serious and i know no one here want their father is in a any "secret-relationship" with any stranger girl outta there isn't it ?

But what i gonna ask you now is - Why there are alot of single ladies are willingly to be with the one , i mean guy , who is someone's hubby already ? Why not they just be with any guys who are single and desperately seeking for any ladies to be their wives ? 

Now , let us open a big table , have some cakes , tea or any hot drinks and discuss about this matter ?
Hehehe sounds so serious isnt it ? Nevermind . Ill find it the answer alone *sobs*

I dont know what's on your mind now friends
But this is some of my own point of view / factor  , why there are alot of single ladies nowadays are more attracted to the married men .

1st - TRAUMA
Lol . I dont know why this 'trauma' word is on my mind now but i think it is one of the factor why young and single lady nowadays is more love to be with someone who is already married . Yeah maybe that girl had been in alot of relationship with many single guys but eventually all of the relationship were failed and didnt last longer and the lady is too sick and eery or maybe TRAUMA to be in a relationship with any single guy anymore ? Make sense or not ? Huehue =p


2nd - MATURITY
Ohyeahhh , nowadays there are alot of smart ladies out there . I repeat , SMART LADIES . Ofcourse , the one who is so smart will act like a smart one isnt it ? I didnt say that ALL THE SMART LADIES but i'm pretty sure that majority of the smart ladies have a matured behavior too . So ofcourse , they wouldnt find or want the one who is so not matured to be their husband right ? Yeah i can see that there are alot of single guy who are matured but there are more more more alot of single guy who didnt as matured as what women want . So these kind of single ladies , who really loves the ones who are so matured , will more attracted to someone's hubby as this group of men are indeed matured . So all the jejaka-jejaka idaman malaya , if you wanna get married with a smart lady , so u have to be matured and please leave some of your so childish behaviour okay ? =p Hehehe


3rd - ESTABLISHED
Okay , this is the most intresting one . I know , most of the smart ladies (not in educational matters as in the 2nd factor above but ehem ehem .. bijak nak hidup =p ) will find the one who have alot of $$$$ and can guaranteed them a very very comfy and better life ahead . They ( ladies ) will more to think bout how they can get the $$$ to shopping or maybe can a get a very fancy car , house , jewelery , branded handbags , shoes , clothes and etc etc etc etc etc . They know , not all the single guys can give these kind of thing to them as the single guys' life are not really stable as the married men . They know , the married one is already have a very stable life and can give them what they want / need . This is so so so make sense right ? =p


4th - INTEREST
Aaaaaa i dont want to give much comment on this factor . But yeah maybe , they , themselves who are intrested to the married men . Not because the married men have a very stable life , $$$ and blablabla but it's already likes a nature that they're intrested with the old men / married men . Faints* Okay , it's all up to them lah kn because it is their interest but for me it's kinda weird because heyyy there are alot of handsome + single guys outta there but your eyes is more fascinated to the married one ? Om om om :3


Somehow , i feel so pity to anyone's wife who just found out or already found that but buat buat dunno that  that that that oh so many that , okay that their hubby are in a relationship with any girls outta there . Their life might became quiet complicated after found out the truth . But anyhow , life goes on . I know it hurts but it more hurts if you just stay at the same place and didnt do anything that might can help you to get a better life ahead even your heart is already broken into the pieces . Live your life back with all the pieces . Make alots of doa , note this please ; doa orang yang teraniaya sangatlah Allah dengar dan makbulkan inshAllah , and keep sabar and sabar and sabar . Sabar separuh daripada iman . Setiap yang terjadi ada hikmahnya dan semestinya hikmah itu adalah akan menjadikan hidup anda lebih baik dr hari semalam . InshAllah . Trust me , one fine day , all of it will  get back to normal and you can have your life back . Dont give up . Sentiasalah menjadi optimistik and paling penting sentiasala bersangka baik dengan Allah .



Dalam sebuah hadith ada mengatakan -


"Dari Jabir berkata: Bersabda Rasulullah saw, Janganlah sekali-kali kamu mati kecuali dalam keadaan berprasangka baik terhadap Allah, sesungguhnya terdapat satu kaum dibinasakan kerana telah berprasangka buruk terhadap Allah Azza Wajall (sebagaimana firman Allah) "Dan yang demikian itu adalah prasangkamu yang telah kamu sangka terhadap Tuhanmu, prasangka itu telah membinasakan dirimu, maka jadilah kamu termasuk orang-orang yang merugi".



Ohhhhh man , me is just giving advices to the those who are already married ?! Amely , you're still young -,- Lol . But who says me cant give advices to them ? Ofcourse i can =p Trolololo =p  Aiy aiy captain ! Kbai .


p/s : I want to be a very good pakar motivasi one day . Ouch ouch ouch