Marriage & Kids ? Eh ?

Hi , My name is Amely . Im 18 . 

And now im going to talk about marriage !

Ohhh no ! Im only 18 dudes ! *pokerface*

K , today's topic for sho' wouldnt be a hot / eye-catching one .

I mean , i bet not everyone is gonna read this entry till the end .

If this entry hanya membosankan you guys , im sorry . 

But dont you think that this topic is quite interesting as it was written by meself , a girl who is only 18 ;p

And she's going to talk about marriage , kids and whatsoeva .

Dont you think that a girl , yg baru berumur 18 tahun , sgt sesuai utk discuss about these kind of thingy ?

No right ? But dont get me wrong guys . I just wanna share what I've been through for these few months .

As imma getting older , eceh tua keew ? Im 18 ohkeyy ? Not 17 anymore ;p

K , continued...

As imma getting older ,

I've be friended w a few guys aged 20 and above . Woho .

To be frank , be friended w the guys aged 20 and above is a new experience fer me , for sho' .

Yeah , when i was 17 , i just be friended w the guys who aged just around me 

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Now , im growing up and ofcourse , i've to make up my minds too . 

I cant think like an immatured one - as i used to be before eventhough now i know im still not matured enough *Lolled*

But , its kinda weird when i was talking w any guys , aged 20 and above , and they started to ask me about my plans , wht im gonna do in my future and so i told them that i wanna be a great lawyer , i wanna bring my parents to Capetown for a vacation , wanna buy them a velii big house and car . 

I might can say that , they gawked when they heard that from me . 

And some of 'em said , "hey im proud of you . Its hard to find girls like you nowadays" etc etc etc...

I dont know if that is a compliment for me or just a "bodek" . I dnt even give a shit about that .

And just now , i was IM-ing w this guy . 

He such a nice guy and well-educated one too .

Before this , he studied at uiam , if not be mistaken , for his diploma . Then he continued his studies at somewhere in Aussie . K , i do proud of him . Do relli relli proud of him .

Now , he's working at somewhere i dont even know where because i'd never thought to ask where he works , what he does and blablabla at all . 

He buzzed me with "hello" and i replied hello too .

Oh-yeah , this is not our 1st conversations actually . We've been IM-ed together for a few times .

To be frank , i do feel so comfortable w him . He's just nice . And I never think out of the box as i just like anggap dia as my own brother lah =p 

And the best part about him is even i just replied w the only letter K . 

He still keep on questioning me like gila byk soalan and its obviously because he wanna keep the conversations alive . Good job brother =) Hehe .

Suddenly , during the conversations just now lah , he gave me a link . And i took a look on that .

He gave me this video ! 

You guys have to watch this video smpai hbs okay then baru sambung baca ! Hehe 

K dah hbs ? Now boleh sambung .

Hamagad ! Dont you think that the baby is too cute ? Hamagad . Faints*

I dont even know is the baby is a boy/girl but that baby is too cute . 

Tapi dia menyanyi dgn sangatla penuh perasaan !

I laugh my ass out masa tgk vid ni . And the part yg dia jatuh is too epic !

Look at the baby face , s/he likes 'omg im about to falling down. ohh-nooooooooooooo . kebabom!'

Hahaha . S/he is so chubby and when dia jatuh , its like nangka yg dh masak jatuh k ? :p

But s/he is extremely fun & cute & i love this baby ! Haha

Then afta watched this vid smpai hbs , i IM-ed this guy back .

And i screamo out my lungs and told him ;

Hamagad , i want this baby ! I want this baby ! This baby is so cute ! Cute like me !! Hehe =p

Then suddenly this guy was like - *laugh* I want this baby too . We got the same taste .

And i was like - Hahah yeapp *pokerface*

And the conversations continued...

Him - Hey ada tk org kata muka you mcm Maya Karin ?

Me - Yes , ada . Ramai . Why ?

Him - Sebab memang sama pun . Cantik

Me - #$%^&% *padahal dlm hati suka girang riang hati tk terkata*

Him - Betul la kn ?

Me - Tk lgsg

Him - Bersyukurlah sebab you cantik .

Me - K.......................................................................

Then he suddenly asked me about marriage .

He asked me what if he wanna propose me as his wife ?

Kebabo ! Wife k ? Wife ? W-I-F-E !

And he wanted to get a kid yg sihat-chubby-so healty like the baby in that video w me ? Gawk*

And i was mumbling , yadayadayadayadayada . 

We laughed the ass out smpai i have to turun bawah utk carik air due to the level of kedahagaan tetiba rising like hareemm . 

And the last point that given by me to him is - 

Hello , im just 18 . And you're 20 something . Im pretty sure that you can find someone who is much much much better than me =) Plus dont you think that its funnayyyy ? Im just 18  *even i know age is just a number . eceh =p*

And he sadly said - yeah i know . plus nanti dkt uia msti ramai lg lelaki yg hebat hebat .

And i tried to relieve him w my words - Ala lelaki yg belajr dkt overseas lg hebat hehe =p (as he used to study at Aussie once upon a time)

What im going to share w you guys here ,

As we're getting older , we're going to meet a bunch of diff people in the same time .

The one who is so hot but there's no one wanted to be w them .

Or maybe the one who is well-educated but still cant find for someone who can be his/her life-partner .

Nowadays , people are more focus on how to find the money , money , money and the young ones is too busy with their "cinta-monyet" yg tk ke mana tu (Certain of it) . Everyone seems veli busy w money sampai lupa nak kahwin . Aik ? =p

Or maybe , people nowadays are too choosy && fussy ? Allahu'alam .

But for those friends outta there , yg baru berumur 17-18 like me . 19 ? Eh ? =p

Dont too much thinking about marriage , kids and yadayadayada .

I know & i admit that umur mcm kita ni ofcourse full w fantasy 

We want this , want that , want this , want that . But afterwards , kita akn realise which one is better for us , for our future . Talking about marriage at our ages is not wrong but too much thinking about marriage and have many kids is a big no-no ok ?

Experiences is the best teacher ever . So , if you guys just saja wanna try and get some experiences by be friended w anybody yg older than us , is okay , but think something that beyond from our limit is a no-no guys

pstt ; this entry kinda long but i still enjoyed it !